Roger had been part of our family for 33 years and was the only Grandpa our kids knew from that side of the family. Bobs Dad died at 52 and Rog's wife was only 49 when she passed away. Both Rog and Bob's mom were married to each other for longer than they were married to their first spouses.
He was a wonderful guy, very calm and easy going. He was truly a blessing to our family. His obituary said he loved his step-family as his own, and it's true. Another thing mentioned by many was his great attitude and thankful nature. Whenever we visited him, he would tell us how what good care they took of him and how blessed he was. Several of the staff members mentioned that in notes to the family; that he was a joy to take care of because of his sweet nature.
His funeral was Thursday and it was a very nice service, with sadness but also the joy of knowing where he is now; no more dementia, vision or hearing issues!
Bobs mom has been gone for 2 years now, this marks another change in the family. We are so thankful to have had him in our lives!
Here is a link to his obituary.
Hi Mari. He sounds like a great man. Like you, I am sure you will see him again and he will be part of your eternal family. That faith is comforting to those who have it. I am sorry for the loss to your family.
ReplyDeleteI am so very sorry. I have personal experience with Alzhelimer's, and it is a horrible disease that robs people of their identity. Your post is a lovely tribute to Roger. Blessings to all of you, I know he will be missed so much.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear about his passing. My mom passed from Alzheimer's. Peace is knowing they will be made new in heaven!
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry to hear this news. I hope his passing was uneventful and short in the process.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for your family’s loss. He sounds like a truly wonderful man and I know you all will miss him. Prayers for y’all in the coming days.
ReplyDeleteRIP. Condolences to your family.
ReplyDeleteMARI - Sad to loose Roger- yet knowing he's better in Heaven is a blessing. Many of my Friends have passed on - 11 in fact in the past few year ranging in age from 80 to 60 years...they are with us all the time and each day I remember them. Regards. KEV.
ReplyDeleteIt's tough, even when the loved one had a good long life. Sorry for your loss.
ReplyDeleteMari, I am so sorry for your loss. Sounds like such a wonderful, sweet man. You can see the kindness in his eyes. I know all of you will miss him.
ReplyDeleteSorry for your loss but glad he is in Heaven. Glad your family had him in your life.
ReplyDeleteMy condolences to your family but Yes and Amen that it’s only a temporary goodbye. Life is hard but God is good!
ReplyDeleteI'm sad to hear this Mari, but as you said he is with the Lord now. Dementia is a terrible way to live, Dad had it and it was so very very sad.
ReplyDeleteMay he rest in peace.
xoxo
So sorry for your loss. He sounds like a wonderful person.
ReplyDeleteOh Mari I am so sorry to hear this, but as you said, his was a life well lived and now his faith has seen him through to Glory. Condolences to you and to Bob, as well as to the children. xoxo
ReplyDeleteMari, Roger sounds like a wonderful man and my condolences to you, Bob and all of Roger's extended family. I know you will all miss him.
ReplyDeleteSorry for your loss.
ReplyDeleteI can tell that he was a blessing to your family and will be sorely missed.
Families are forever, and what a sweet reunion he must be having with his family that went on before him :)
{{huge hugs}}
~K.
I’m so sorry
ReplyDeleteSorry for your loss. He sounds like a wonderful person. Such a comfort knowing you will meet up again one day!
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry for your loss. He sounds like a wonderful person and I'm sure he will be greatly missed.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for your family's loss. Roger sounds like a wonderful person and someone who will be missed greatly. Knowing that we will meet again is such a comfort when a loved one passes.
ReplyDeleteBeing a "step" mom to my boys, I understand the dynamics and am as blessed as your dear father-in-law was. A life well lived, full of love. xo
ReplyDeleteHe sure sounds like he was an amazing and loving caring man. With each year that passes by, I feel I understand more and more about how very precious our relationships in our lives are. Each day with our loved ones truly is a gift. How wonderful that Bob (& all) had dear Rog in their lives for so long. And you're so right - it's not goodbye. Just catch up with you later. I hope knowing that brings comfort to your hearts. Thanks for sharing! Hugs and love to you all. xoxo
ReplyDeleteI'm so very sorry for your loss. He sounds like a wonderful man.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful tribute to Roger. He sounds like a very special man who touched the life of many with his gentleness and kindness.
ReplyDeleteAlways sad to lose a loved one and he sounds like he was a great one. But we do know something better waits for us. Two young women I know lost their newborn babies. One 4 days ago and one in August. So terribly sad. Little Maeve was 63 days old and little Mesa did not live but a few days. Those are really hard losses as we know very well. One of our favorite TV stars Angela Lansbury passed away today at age 96. Her children said she passed away in her sleep and had not been ill. She was quite a grand lady and we loved her murder mystery series.
ReplyDeleteYou write a beautiful tribute Mari. Gentle hugs across the miles and many prayers for the family.
Belated condolences for your family’s loss, Mari. May he rest in peace.
ReplyDeleteDeath is easier to cope with when you know they have a faith and will be with the Lord. I'm sorry for your loss.
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